Making a good life decision ?

Yeah, I know I need to make my own decisions and blah blah ya ya, and shouldn't choose my own choices through other people thoughts, but I am still uncertain if I want to "gauge" or "stretch" my ears, I really want to stretch my ears but should I stretch my ears to a 6 right away? Or just do the stretching size process real slow? So far I learn more about stretching your ears. If I stretch my ears to a 6 could I go back to normal? Because there is no such thing as forever young and I probably outgrow them, so I know this question sounds dumb, but I really want to know can I go to a size 6 when I stretch my ears for the first time and I also want to know if my whole will eventually close up. By the way thanks for your time for reading my question and answering it.